Sonder: The realization that everybody has a story
“… the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own—populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines, worries and inherited craziness—an epic story that continues invisibly around you like an anthill sprawling deep underground, with elaborate passageways to thousands of other lives that you’ll never know existed, in which you might appear only once, as an extra sipping coffee in the background, as a blur of traffic passing on the highway, as a lighted window at dusk….”
Everybody has a story and it is not yours. And, most likely, you are not even part of it. For most of the world you do not exist.
What’s the population of the world? 7 billion
How many people will get to know you or see you in your life time? Google states that an average estimate is 10 thousand people.
Let’s do the math:
7,000,000,000 – 10,000 = 6,999,990,000
For 6,999,990,000 people you do not exist, never existed, and will never exist… The same can be said about those 6 billion, nine hundred ninety nine million, nine hundred ninety nine thousand people. They do not exist in your world. You will never meet them, never hear of them, will never know they existed.
Can you chew on that for a moment?