The only disability in life is a bad attitude

Nic Vujicic

Before you get all puffed up and give me a lecture on people with disabilities and call me ignorant, let’s take a look at what the disability is:

“…Disability is an umbrella term, covering impairments, activity limitations, and participation restrictions…”

Doesn’t that sound interesting?  What this definition means is that there are two kind of people :

– people who have two arms, two legs, vision, hearing, and thinking that allows them to perform duties that somehow benefit the society

– and then there are people who are missing something and can’t do things to make my or somebody else’s life better.

In other words, disability is a term that is invented by egotistical self-centered people who are so absorbed with their own well-being that everybody else who can’t do things and contribute to make this well oiled “life machine” work for everybody equally is considered disabled.

This whole world is built around 80% of society with arms, legs, eyes, ears, ability to count, write papers, cook and clean, and build buildings. In other words, we are all able but not all of us are capable to do all of the jobs but we are still considered “NORMAL”. And then there is this other part of the society that is slower, that maybe can’t  use both hands or legs or can’t do math, or is somehow not functioning like majority and that is called disability.

However, my dear friend, is that really a disability just because they can’t contribute and participate in this conveyor of life? Do we have to look at them with pity and treat them like they are less of something, like they are less of a human being, like they can’t enjoy life like everybody else?

The truth is, they are not disabled, they are differently- abled. They are perfect the way they are, they are unique, they have their own ability, their own uniqueness, their own purpose in this life. Yes, maybe somebody needs to work to give them the ability to live among us, ant colony, just because we are so rigid in our thinking that we do not embrace every aspect of human existence.

If we would build this world not catering to majority but build it for everybody and embrace uniqueness, then there would not be any disabilities, there would be just abilities and walking breathing geniuses.

We make these people feel like they are less, we make them feel like there is something wrong with them. We treat them like a burden, we feel sorry for them because they are not like us. But does that really mean that we are these superior beings to be compared to?

It just really makes me mad when we create labels, judge people, categorize, make them feel different and less able when it actually is us who are narrow-minded, stuck and disabled as we can’t even think for ourselves.

Oscar Pistorius

So, back to my point, there is no disability, there is just a bad attitude. Look at paralympians. Can you do what they do?
Not that they play hockey without legs, play basketball in a wheelchair, run while totally blind, ski down the hill on one leg, and swim without extremities. Who the hell is disabled? I can’t even swim with both arms and legs. I can’t play hockey and God forbid to let me go down the hill on skis. Those people learned to adjust to OUR world that we created egotistically thinking only about the majority of this society and in addition to that we then labeled everyone else – disabled.

I am ashamed of myself and I am ashamed of human beings that I live among.

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About Dace

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5 responses to “The only disability in life is a bad attitude”

  1. carolynpageabc says :

    I get the greatest satisfaction talking to someone, (let’s say who hasn’t any legs and is in a wheelchair). They are so often just normal folk like any other and welcome being treated as such. I am often touched by the surprise some show when they realise that I ‘am’ treating them as I would any other, as though this isn’t the norm for them. It must be terrible, for whatever reason, to be made to feel different. I agree with you Dace (and I feel your annoyance). As a rule society isn’t very tolerant and accepting of differences… I can’t change society however; I can change myself. Perhaps if we placed ourselves in other’s positions (who we believe to be different from ourselves) we may just find out that we have many more similarities than we do differences… and we all have useful talents and abilities…
    A heart felt post Dace…

    • Dace says :

      I think the emphasis has to be on – both sides seem surprised. One side is surprised that : ” OMG, they are the same way as everybody else. Who would have thought!” The other side: ” Are you really treating me like everybody else?”.

      What is wrong with this picture? Sad…really sad..
      However, you are so right when you say – you can’t change the world but you can change yourself and inspire others to follow you

      • carolynpageabc says :

        Yes Dace, I agree – it is sad. A lot of people don’t know how to handle anything that is different. It causes them to have to go out of that box that they have imprisoned themselves within… I do believe though, that with things like the paralympics and a greater accessibility in mainstream life for wheelchair access and such (plus here in Australia there is a subsidy given to employers to help them to choose to hire individuals with mental challenges and such) there is a broadening of understanding happening. Like all change though, it comes slowly….

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