Loving Two People At The Same Time
I have always wondered if that is possible – to love two people at the same time. I think that to insist on the belief that there is only one soul mate is kind of silly. Throughout our lives we fall in love so many times with so many different people. We are attracted to many things and as we change and grow older our taste changes.
What do we love in a person?
I have looked back at my “being in love” experience and I see so many different people that are nothing alike. That would make me think that we fall in love with characteristics – personality, unique looks, laughter, smile and etc., so loving more than one person at the same time may not be entirely unfeasible, thus the two loves could be considered complementary rather than contradictory.
Emotionally, it is extremely painful to imagine your lover in the arms of another person as that might feel as you are not good enough or that they do not love you anymore but that is another topic…
As I said, I am just wondering if that is possible to love two people simultaneously