Being Gay – is it a choice OR…
Isn’t this the most discussed topic? Let’s look at it. If you have a choice, that means that it is true for everybody. Every single person is presented with two or more options, right? What am I getting at? Well, if being gay is a choice, that means that at certain point one had to choose to be or not to be. And that means, we were born neutral and attracted to both genders.
If you are the one who tells me – being gay is a choice, you are telling me that you have made a choice to be straight earlier in your life . You are telling me that actually you are attracted to the same gender, you just choose to be with the opposite sex. Doesn’t that mean that you are either bisexual or you have a nerve to tell me that your choice for some reason is better than mine? Isn’t that hypocrisy? If you are saying that you have never been attracted to the same gender, that means – being gay or straight is not a choice or a lifestyle.
Definition of the word “lifestyle” is – a pattern of individual practices and personal behavioral choices. Being gay can’t be defined as lifestyle because “lifestyle” is a choice but being gay is not.
So, when did you decide to be straight? How old were you when you made a choice to be heterosexual?