We all have secrets! We all have things that we do not talk about! We all have memories that we wish were made up. And we have mind created memories of events that never happened.
However, what actually impresses me is that there are people who let others around them think that something is true but never make an effort to share the actual truth. Yes, sometime it is not worth even trying and sometimes there is no need.
I read a Single Dad Laughing’s compilation of What people think is true and What actually is true, and two entries caught my attention.
“Having the secret gives me power over at east something in my life”. How about leaving? How about taking charge of your own life and having a chance of being happy? How about leaving to have a chance to meet somebody who will love you and respect you? How about reaching out for help?
I don’t understand this – having an affair and staying in that relationship is helping how…? I am afraid to think what will happen when the husband finds out about this affair.
This is a good one. That made me smile and say – you go girl. Not that I support affairs with married people but we all have choices to make. Being considered a lesbian apparently is better than admitting the affair.